Thursday, 7 May 2015

Morality, spirituality and elections by Shri T.S. Ananthu, Gandhian thinker



 Morality, spirituality and elections by Shri T.S. Ananthu

As most of us know, the split in AAP fructified on March 28, 2015, at a meeting of their National Executive wherein Yogendra Yadav and Prashant Bhushan were expelled from their Political Affairs Committee. Much has been written and said about the merits and demerits of what happened at that meeting. However, not that much attention has been given to a central point on which Kejriwal asked the NE members to base their vote on. He said:
‘You have to choose between those who lead you to victory versus those who lead you to defeat.’
By a vast majority, the NE members voted in favour of the one who had led them to that spectacular victory in Delhi, and so Yadav and Bhushan were expelled.
Yogendra Yadav too alluded to this subject when he wrote to all AAP volunteers later on:
“How to keep at bay the greed of instant success? Can success be achieved without compromising with one's moral ideals?”
However, while he raised this important question, he did not seem to provide an answer. So, I wrote to two grandsons of Mahatma Gandhi (also of Rajaji) whom I have been in touch with since the 1970s – Rajmohan Gandhi and Gopalakrishna Gandhi. Both are well known for their moral standing. Gopalakrishna penned his answer in one brief sentence:
“I believe it is just about possible, though extremely difficult.”
Rajmohan’s response was:
“A good answer to your question cannot come from me. What little I know pis this: many elections of the kind I have fought are won or lost because of a 'wave' which some can spot in advance.”
As is obvious from Rajmohan’s response, he did not think the voters paid much heed to his moral standing. When he contested in 1990 from Amethi against Rajiv Gandhi, hardly anyone said: ‘hey, here is the grandson of Gandhiji, whose family members have never gone after power or pelf, unlike those from the Nehru dynasty. Why not vote for him?’. When he contested on the AAP ticket in 2014, once again, his moral standing was ignored. Why is that the case? Why is it that voters in the same country which stood like a rock behind Gandhiji chose not to back his grandson who, unlike many other politicians, has a clean record and is well known for his ability to lead organizations? Has the Indian’s attraction to the moral fibre of its leaders gone down? If so, how come AAP swept the Delhi Assembly elections within a few months of Rajmohan’s defeat in the same city?
I -think it is a good idea for all of us to ponder over these fundamental questions. Let me put down here what comes to my mind as the answer.
My thoughts on these important questions:
I think morality does play a role in deciding a voter’s choice, but it is only one factor amongst many. For instance, if residents of a village badly need a road built so that bus services can be extended to their village, and a leading light in the village promises to get this done if they all vote for his party, and they believe his promise, they are likely to become part of his ‘vote bank’ – even if they know that in the process of getting the road built their ‘leader’ is likely to line his pockets. Thus, a morally upright person who is unable to ‘deliver the goods’ is unlikely to get the voters’ support. But that does not mean that morality is never a factor in the decision the voter makes. If two people are contesting an election and both seem capable of delivering the goods equally well, they would generally choose the one who seems more upright between the two of them. I would view AAP’s spectacular performance in Feb. 2015 in this light. In May 2014 voters had preferred BJP to AAP because Modi seemed capable of delivering the goods, and Kejriwal’s abrupt resignation had raised questions in their minds as to whether he was capable of governance. But his unqualified apology – coming as it did from a person whom they considered honest to the core – was accepted by them. By Feb. 2015 there was a feeling that Modi may not be that capable of implementing his promises as they had supposed in 2014, and so the voters immediately switched over to those whom they considered morally upright, and who now promised to deliver the goods and not run away from responsibility.

One of the important things politicians decide before their campaign is – what ‘goodies’ do we promise to deliver, and to whom? If the promises are attractive, the politician is likely to get the votes. Most of the time the goodies promised are only to a section of the voters – selected on the basis of caste, religion, region, language, class etc. In such a case, even if a political party wins, it is never a ‘wave’, for the votes get divided – as happened in the recent elections in J&K, where there was one ‘Hindu’ wave in Jammu and a counter-wave (‘Muslim’) in the Valley, thus effectively cancelling each other.

Whenever a ‘wave’ has happened across the board, it has always been the result of a clever positioning by a political party that promises to deliver goods to all and sundry – at least, the overwhelming majority. Thus, the Kejriwal wave of Feb. 2015 was based upon promises such as free water and reduced electricity rates across the board. The Modi wave of 2014 was based on a promise of ‘development’ (meaning, increase in income) to all sections of society, including the Muslims. The first wave that we saw in India was in 1971, when Indira Gandhi coined the catchy slogan ‘garibi hatao’, and created headlines by nationalizing the banks and removing the privileges of the princely class, promising that all except the top 1% would benefit by her policies. This never happened, of course – and when instead a select few scoundrels were seen accumulating enormous wealth illegally, the tide turned against her, and intensified when she tried to suppress it with her Emergency. This universal disillusionment resulted in another wave – this time, againsther, in 1977. But those who now came to power, though of a better moral fibre, were singularly unable to ‘deliver the goods’.  All sections of society were again very disillusioned. So, we had a repeat of the Indira wave in 1979.

It is worth noting that each ‘wave’ that we have witnessed was actually based upon an expectation which was never fulfilled. Therefore, every election boils down to a drama, a process which a British writer captured very well in the following humourous way:

“Under democracy one party always devotes its chief energies to trying to prove that the other party is unfit to rule – and both commonly succeed, and are right.”

What is really important to recognize is that what creates a ‘wave’ - ‘goodies’ promised across the board (such as ‘development for all’ a la Modi)  - can NEVER be delivered. If they are made available to one section of society, it is always at the expense of the other. Gandhi conveyed this through his famous statement – ‘the earth provides enough for every man’s need, but not for every man’s greed’. It is not possible to make everybody rich in the modern sense of the term, because modern ‘development’ is always at the cost of Nature, and the earth has a fixed amount of non-renewable resources. 

Therefore, elections often deteriorate into one-up-man-ship games by politicians trying to please one section of society at the cost of the other. In such a scenario, issues like sharing of river waters, proficiency in a particular language for getting jobs, giving a particular caste or religious grouping preferences etc. become very emotive issues, often resulting in violent confrontations. But they do get votes for those who are promoting these confrontations – irrespective of their moral standing.

There is a story of a politician who wanted to get elected from a working class constituency. He came up with a brilliant idea to garner votes. “If you elect me,” he told them during an election rally,” I will make sure that you only have a three-day working week”. Not to be outsmarted, his opponent came to the microphone and countered with “But if you elect me, I will make sure you need to come to work only every Wednesday”. One of the workers shouted from the audience –‘what do you mean, every Wednesday?”

This story is meant to illustrate why it is that people espousing extremist ideologies tend to get attention and votes so easily these days. The vast majority of people want to climb the ‘get rich quickly’ bandwagon, in which the expectations are raised to unsustainable levels, and the hope is that the modern ‘system’ with its wonderful technologies will meet those expectations at the least cost – so, why work even on every Wednesday if one can get one’s salary without that?

This trend is catching up in a big way not just in our country, but all over the world. For example, why is it that sectarian fissures have developed in Iraq? The fundamental reason is that Sunnis and Shias have been promised increased share of incomes from oil and such ‘natural’ revenues by those who claim to be their religious leaders. Even the ‘secular’ Saddam Hussein resorted to this tactic to retain his hold on power, and now IS is practicing it in a very blatant way. Sunnis from all over the world are being attracted to shift to IS territory and join them on the basis of promises that include the provision of a lovely house, a car and girls. These are the kind of promises that always backfire in the end. Assuming the IS goal of converting all of humanity into Sunnis (by eliminating those who refuse to convert) is fulfilled, is it really going to be possible to supply these ‘goodies’ to each one? For instance, if each person were to own a car, how many years of supply of gasoline will the earth have? What about the iron ore needed for the manufacture of the car? So, in no time at all, there will be different groupings among the world’s Sunnis, all fighting with each other for a better and bigger share of the world’s scarce resources, but in the name of their particular group, whose interpretation of the Koran they will claim is the ‘right’ one!

We need to recognize that the modern goal of ‘development for all’ has pushed us all into a fool’s paradise, resulting in the mayhem we are witnessing in so many parts of the world. At the root of all our problems – which may seem to stem from different sources such as religion, ethnicity, language, nationality, class, caste etc. – is our definition of what constitutes development and progress.

Recognizing that the modern military-industrial complex is luring us into unachievable goals, Gandhi had suggested a different route, as spelt out in his seminal book “Hind Swaraj” – in which, he made it clear, his advice is meant not just for Indians but for all of mankind, including the Englishman. It is very important to understand that what he meant by “Swaraj” is very different from the way the word in understood by most people, including Kejriwal and Yadav. To him, Swaraj meant Swa+Raj – self-control, control over one’s own mind. Therefore, it was primarily an individual concept, not a political one. In his vision, Swaraj at the social level could occur only if a sufficient number of people practiced it at the individual level. Concepts such as village republics and local self-governance (which AAP has been stressing) flowed from this basic notion of individual self-control. But these concepts are not implementable at the social level in the absence of Swa+Raj at the individual level.

Therefore, Swaraj from the Gandhian point of view is basically a spiritual effort, wherein we try to bring our mind under our control – so that we learn to distinguish between need and greed, and thereby limit ourselves to our needs, which Mother Earth is ever willing to provide to all of humanity. ‘Mohalla sabhas’ of the kind AAP has been championing as the basis for decision-making will not work until our very definition of ‘development’ is based on self-control as the goal of life.

If material growth is not the goal of life, what should it be? If we want to pursue Swaraj, the goal of life has to be –becoming a better human being – rather than increasing our so-called ‘standard of living’. In theory, almost everyone would agree that becoming a better human being is a desirable goal, but when it comes to practice, it becomes very difficult to marry this goal with the goal of ‘prosperity’ that modern development promotes. When I was living in USA in 1965, I had come to know a wonderful, loving, helpful family, who were trying their best to practice (as well as preach) Christianity. Their home, which I used to visit often, was in a place called East Palo Alto – which at that time housed only whites. One day, when I went there, they were all in a sullen, depressed state of mind. When I inquired, they told me with alarm written all over their features that a black man had purchased a house in East Palo Alto. “Why does that bother you?,” I asked, “I thought you treated blacks as equal, especially if they are Christians.” They replied: “Oh yes, we do, but we don’t want them as neighbours. That depresses the property market, and all the loans we have taken for buying the goods to maintain our standard of living are based on the assumption that our lovely home’s market value will increase exponentially.” They soon put up a ‘For Sale’ board on their lawn, and succeeded in selling their lovely home before the prices went down too low. This trend picked up momentum, real estate prices dived, and East Palo Alto soon became a ‘ghetto’ for the blacks!

We may not realize it, but built into the value framework of modern development are features which force us to become worse rather than better human beings. Modern development is based upon a creation of desires – for goods, for new inventions, for a bigger share of nature’s resources. 

Therefore, we end up treating the ‘other’ (be it the religion or race or caste or whatever) as a competitor, to be outsmarted – or. worse still,  eliminated - even if that is not our intention. The highly respected economist John Maynard Keynes was frank enough to admit this in simple, straightforward terms:

“We must all pretend to ourselves and to each other that foul is far and fair is foul, for foul is useful and fair is not. Avarice and usury and precaution must be our gods for a little longer, for it is only these gods who can take us out of the tunnel of economic necessity into daylight.”


Gandhi’s ideas were based on a recognition of the truth of what Keynes has stated above – that in the name of ‘economic necessity’, morality is being sacrificed.  Therefore, he suggested the opposite – putting a limit on our material desires so that our higher faculties may be better developed, resulting in our becoming better human beings. But the fact is that the people of India have never really accepted Gandhi’s ideas, even though we call him the Father of the Nation. Beginning with Nehru, who used the word ‘preposterous’ to describe Gandhi’s booklet “Hind Swaraj”, even his own so-called followers (with the possible exception of Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan) had rejected it. And now, with ‘globalization’ in the air and everyone’s penchant for improving our ‘standard of living’, the vast majority of people want to go in the direction opposite to what Gandhi had recommended.

Therefore, ideas like Swaraj are not easy to implement, as the masses are today too enamoured of ‘development’. However, a good leader can attempt to turn the tide, provided he himself is practising Swa+Raj – the spiritual goal of gaining full control over the mind. What does this mean in actual practice? It does not mean that Kejriwal losing his temper and abusing Yadav and Bhushan during that infamous phone conversation amounts to proof that he is not trying to practice Swa+Raj. But if he does not feel remorse for it by resolving not to treat others in this fashion again, then he has not set the goal of Swa+Raj for himself – and so his attempts at Swaraj for Delhi or India will come to naught. Similarly, during his address at Ramlila grounds, when he spoke of the ills of ahankar and how the voters had punished AAP on account of this in the 2014 elections, if he was referring to himself, then he is practising Swa+Raj. But if, as many analysts have said, it was an oblique reference to Yadav and Bhushan whom he was planning to throw out of the party, then he was far away from this ideal. He was ignoring the truth of that famous saying which I first heard from Rajmohan Gandhi:


“When you point a finger at someone, remember, there are three fingers pointing at you.”


Looking at one’s own shortcomings, admitting them and trying to overcome them is the essence of Swa+Raj. This seems a sure way to lose elections, where ‘putting down the other’ is standard practice. Therefore, as Gopalakrishna Gandhi has written, winning elections on a moral platform is “extremely difficult”. But it has been done, and it can be done. Two examples that come to my mind are Lal Bahadur Shastri and Gulzarilal Nanda. When Shastri was Prime Minister, I remember an incident when he was visiting Bangalore. Those days, India was always facing a food shortage, something the newer generation has not experienced. At that particular time, Karnataka had been in the grip of a severe food crisis on account of a drought, and Shastri had been called there by the Chief Minister specifically to request a special package of aid from the Central government. On the evening of his arrival, there was a tea party in his honour, where the menu included specialities like fried cashew nuts, tasty sweets etc. Shastri excused himself from eating any of these. Then, when his turn as the guest of honour came to make a speech, he merely said: “Tomorrow, when your Chief Minister requests me for a special grant from the Centre by pointing to the shortage of food in this state, I am merely going to read out the menu of items served at this function”.

Shastri’s speech would not have had the desired effect if he had himself partaken of any of the goodies. Therefore, a few days later, when he called upon each Indian to skip a meal a day for some days, there was a massive response. Only a leader who practices Swa+Raj himself can evoke such a response. This is where the importance of individual self-control comes in. Not just at the level of food and money, but also at the level of power. Gulzarilal Nanda was made Acting Prime Minister twice, but was never elevated to that supreme post which all politicians hanker after. But he never minded it, and when the second time he was overlooked and Indira Gandhi was instead elected by the party, he merely shifted to a one-room rented tenement in Delhi in which he lived out the rest of his life.

If a politician were to practice this kind of Swa+Raj on himself, what are the chances that he would get into positions of power? Most people would think the chances of getting elected on a platform of humility is very low. But if winning is the sole aim of the politician, then morality has to be bid goodbye.
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Narasimha Prasad  







 A few thoughts on morality in politics & Swa-raj as explained by Gandhiji.
1. In as much as that politics is all about influencing people & events. In a democracy, reaching a position of influence over the majority of the electorate is the all consuming objective of the politician. Personal morality is but one of the features of a leader that may be appealing to the electorate. Frequently, more attractive features as you've elaborated are peddled to get the votes. It is also easier to do so. Equally important, a morally upright person is more likely to be loathe to boast about her uprightness, even mention about it in publicity. In a democracy, that is self - defeating when winning elections is the objective.
2. An individual elector would look for whats appealing in the personal perspective of immediate/ short term/ medium / long term features of the candidates. A candidate's morality would be more appealing if it is shown to be lacking than otherwise, as frequently seen. It appears easier for morality to become a influencing factor collectively at times than at a personal level. A candidate's personal integrity & high morals stand a very poor chance against promise of goodies & freebies, personal or collective.
3. It is easier for everyone to highlight negatives as there is an excitement in knowing/ talking about the negatives of a person that positives can never match. We can see that happening always - a rape, an actor getting convicted for a crime, a politician accused of corruption, get much more attention than the excellent work of Satyarthi or the moral uprightness of numerous but a minority of government employees who suffer for protecting their integrity & honesty while at public service.
4. A leader who invokes the latent aspiration for everyone to be good, to be successful,  to be morally upright
 has a better chance to get elected over another equally morally upright candidate.
5. Greed is a basic human trait that is better regulated than suppressed or avoided in the society. At a personal level, what is adequate is the individual's estimate that differs not only amongst people but also with time for the same person. Hence, Gandhiji's Swa-raj is more a personal ideal to work for than to be a collective benchmark.  

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Shri T.S. Ananthu’s response.
I particularly liked two points - (i) a morally upright person will never boast about his uprightness as humility is the foundation of all other good traits (ii) good workers and good behaviour (by people like government servants) does not catch peoples' attention because the media needs to highlight the sensational and catchy stuff. It is for this reason that sectarian and communal differences tend to get exaggerated - no one, for instance, mentions the hundreds of Hindus who risked their lives to save their Sikh friends in Delhi during the 1984 riots, or the Muslims who protected the Pandits when they were being terrorized in Kashmir.

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Wednesday, 14 May 2014

A Refresher

More often than not, you get labelled - care-free, reserved, garrulous, expressive, quiet, simpleton, mercurial, shrewd, cunning, the list can go on. Of course, the latter two labels are those that are on your back and you spend many years being totally unaware of it. What got me thinking today was about those that you are aware of. The more you are aware of, rather, longer that you are aware of it, unconsciously, you find yourself living up to it. At least I became conscious of this today. My wife always upbraids me for talking very little, showing little interest in affairs of people - who is doing what, who is not doing what, what gets who excited....... Worse, I'm always a disinterested listener,my disinterest being obvious, even when the talk is about ourselves or things that she is passionate about. And that isn't all. A natural corollary is - I'm totally self -absorbed, responding only when there's any mention of my wrongdoing. You would've guessed it, I'm a bad listener. I'd like to believe I'm that only at home, particularly to the dear wife. That may well be just a wish, it cannot be that I'm all ears out of home, but stone deaf at home. I should concede my claim to be a good listener can have validity only if listening comprises nodding, 'hmmmm's, 'Haan, Haan's, 'Yes', You're right's at every pause and staring at the horizon as if in deep thought.  Having painfully realized that these alone do not make me a good listener, I just stay me, the disappointed wife is not yet reconciled to that me.

That isn't the point that set me thinking today. It was my meeting with a gentleman I was meeting only for the second time. What was to be a discussion planned for an hour at most about a transaction stretched to nearly three hours. Obviously the planned discussion transaction couldn't stretch that long, after all, it was a commercial transaction, neither I nor he are diplomats or bureaucrats. When I said bye to him & left, I felt refreshed, rather lighter. No, it wasn't  a transaction concluded to mutual satisfaction. As I thought about it, there were just two reasons.

One, a point my visitor had mentioned in our previous meeting - ' whatever happens, will happen, it is the common consciousness that is making it happen, you are just a medium through whom it will happen. Once  you realise this, you become the observer, not player. Well,. that zipped through between the ears. Only thought then was, oh, this is another dose of philosophy, a quote from Bhagavatgeeta will follow, may be, even Zen Buddhism, if not Rumi. That wasn't to be. His elaboration on the same point had meandered through a listener that now you know I am.

That was three months ago. Since then, several things have happened with me bringing me to a decision point that I'd resisted strongly for a couple of years. That the mass between the ears wasn't such a great conductor of sound as to let the whole thing pass through was a revelation to me today. The evidence is here after all, I can recall, if not exactly, but in sum. Not just that, a little of it had been absorbed.

But no, I don't dare share this with the wife, it would invariably look like a boast. God knows, boast is hardly the action I should undertake, particularly with the dear wife. 
An Issue of Dharma in Modern Times

A question that arose recently in a discussion was left unanswered to everyone’s satisfaction and left me thinking.
History and mythology is replete with instances of individuals putting their individual call above the personal responsibility to family and dependents – Prince Gautama deserted his wife and infant son to search for meaning of life and became the Buddha, well, that may well be a wrong analogy to start with, we just don’t know if taking care of wife and children was a responsibility of a prince three millennia earlier, quite possibly not. We haven’t read anywhere of Christopher Columbus’s wife complaining of his irresponsibility in running away from home chasing distant lands  and glory leaving her to fend for the home & kids. She may well have been happier to have her marital home all to herself to lord over than have an irascible man around all the time who would any way lord over her. It appears to be a 20th century phenomenon – it is not enough for the man to fill the larder, as they say and ensure a roof over the head these days.  Rather, the scope of the man’s responsibility has somewhat expanded – a man is expected to provide for both material and emotional security & comfort to the family. 
A man who doesn’t is irresponsible. Then, a man, or a woman for that matter, may have his/ her own calling beyond the routine of running the family. Many a times, this call is so irresistible that mundane matters like meeting the family’s needs are either ignored or simply not fulfilled. Now, that isn’t a unique or special situation. Every adult goes about juggling her/ his responsibilities and obligations towards her/ his career/ family/ business/ public service or may be a higher calling, like the Buddha to be, had. And everyone manages in individual ways. In a middle class home, the man bringing in enough money to pay for the grocery, rent, EMIs, bills and such other expenses , more or less, gets away with full freedom to use his mind-space & money on whatever is his calling. A woman, on the other hand has had changing roles. Taking care of the home & children covered almost full responsibility. But no more, in this generation, the woman is expected to contribute to the family’s finances as well. In what may be called the below-middle classes, such has been the responsibility thrust on the woman all along.
Now, is not fulfilling this responsibility an act of Adharma in the modern sense ? It is a fairly open & shut case, isn’t it ? Is it as simple for a woman, not taking care  of the home & children, too  ? What if this shortcoming is due to other responsibility of bringing home some money too ? Is it acceptable given that she is taking additional responsibilities  that, in earlier generations, was not hers ?
Another turn of this question seems a little more complicated. Take the case of a man who dreams of becoming a tycoon, sets up a business, struggles through with it, in the process, falls short of providing adequately for the family. While a corporatized business or a smart businessman would ensure personal safety net for the entrepreneur in tough times, the question becomes critical for the  non-corporatized and the not-so - smart businessmen. Obviously, being not- so  - smart cannot an excuse for irresponsibility. But in a practical situation, an entrepreneur may have to prioritise between meeting professional/ business commitments and personal/ family requirements. Put simply, the challenge a small time entrepreneur may face is, given the Bank balance, which do you pay – the employee wages or home loan EMI ? Power bill at the factory or grocery bill at home ? Long - pending supplier payment or children’s school fees ? Host the annual photo-shoot  at Sun City for bevy of curvy models or pay the salaries of employees due for more than six months ?Which of these choices  mean dereliction of duty ?
It is simpler to an unattached bystander when s/ he reads of the issue that a company faces to decide between continuing to host gorgeous models at Sun City for the Annual photo-shoot for the famed calender and pay the salaries of employees waiting for months together.  
I have heard many a men say, ‘commitment is a commitment, if I give a word to pay, come what may, I will have to pay it, if it means selling wife’s jewelry or a family property, so be it. The jewelry can always be replaced, another property can be purchased in good times, but an unmet commitment means a loss of reputation and once my reputation is lost, everything is lost’. Brave words, certainly evocative, many an Indian cinema hero has mouthed something to this effect ever so frequently with a weeping but encouraging wife alongside, her jewelry in hand to be pawned.
The society celebrates those who break out of the routine of mundane existence, aspire for and achieve greatness, wealth & influence. It is invariably true that the path to that stage would be through considerable personal sacrifices, even compromises –ignoring the family, considerable difficulties , be they emotional or material. And these are faced not by that individual alone, but the family as well. Rather, the family would have suffered more as the individual’s dream & passion would have overshadowed all the difficulties. Now for every success, surely, there are numerous failures. There are also numerous failures preceding a success.
We do get to know of the pain & difficulties that the individual and people live through and not the least part of our respect and applause is for that , but only of those which have been successful. Spare a thought those numerous individuals and families who suffer through and but give up at some point to be left only with heaps of, more of that suffering, be it debt, penury, illness, displacement or worse. It can only be the way we ‘tut tut’ when we read news items like  of a family taking their own lives to escape business losses in the morning paper.
Considering it a fair supposition that the individual  chasing a dream beyond the routine does not completely fulfil, in time, all his/ her responsibilities to the family, it should apply to all such individuals, be the few successes or the numerous failures. Does the eventual success or realisation of the dream relieve the individual of the Adharma s/ he committed through her/ his path ? It appears so, I’m yet to come across a case of any success story undermined by the difficult path to that success. To the families, the success in the end makes up for the difficult journey to it. That this advantage is not available to the rest of individuals who fall amongst the failures, is what is all the difference between & success and being answerable to the consequences of failure.
It is another thing that many a person would not start out at all has s/he fully known what it means to try beyond the normal. There is no lack of advise available for free on the difficulties. Hearing of difficulties is surely not the same as going through those difficulties. Whenever I hear a person s/he is ready for all/ any difficulty, I find myself musing ‘Trust me, you don’t what you are saying !’. But that is not to be said, difficulty is to be experienced, not to be told about as much as a success is to be.

Thinking through these got me just one possible answer. Explaining the dream to the family and involving them might help deflect some of the Adharma. But that is only passing the buck, isn’t it ? 

Friday, 25 April 2014

A Rude Shock

There has been a lot of newsprint spent on the alleged polarisation that has been affected across India by unscrupulous politicians to maximise the votes in their favour in the ongoing elections. Like many other fellow lay readers of newspapers, I've also taken this to be referring to provocative statements and speeches of  politicians and candidates in the elections creating a fear complex within their community by magnifying real & imagined excesses by the other community like promising job reservations in the obvious knowledge that it is unconstitutional or saying 'It was not Hindu but Muslim Jawans who won Kargil'. Or issuing threats to 'Teach a Lesson', 'Send them to Pakistan'. These are obviously meant to provoke anger, hatred and fear sufficiently as to make people vote en bloc to the candidate from their own community. Put simply, get Muslims to vote only for Muslim candidates & Hindus to vote only for Hindu candidates. While psephologists and columnists generate enormous amount of literature mainly pre- election but also post- election analyses, I'm yet to be convinced if this is an actual pattern or a creation to just get the desired results in the elections - get my candidate to get elected.

But that is not the story I want to write here, I'm no committed political activist/ observer, leave alone a psephologist. I've always thought, may be wished, that such provocations work to a very limited extent (unless in case of  of a major event like Babri Masjid destruction and the aftermath) and bulk of the informed voters & citizens see through the game and make their choices based on their own assessment unswayed by such rhetoric. I had thought this kind of polarisation is more in the minds of the gullible excluding urbanised upper middle class. My belief was rudely proved wrong with my recent experience, actually last week.

The energetic sparring that I used to enjoy with a good friend in the school days was renewed a few years ago as we discovered each other after a long gap. Though the difference in opinion now is more due to the differing perceptions on Hindutva & Hindu - Muslim interaction, the debates continued to be enjoyable, indeed I enjoyed it so much that I tried provoke my friends through comments more provocative than I felt, just to get them to betray the limit. I didn't have to work very hard at it, I saw the limits very frequently, nevertheless, the exchanges remained exciting and enjoyable. But the latest exchange was different.

I got to see the extent of hatred that misinformation and many outright falsehoods, perpetrated by self styled protectors of Hindu culture & religion, have  affected the reasoning of many an urbanised middle/ upper middle class/ affluent people, otherwise very pleasant & friendly. The passion to make Hinduism as exclusivist as  Islam that they accuse of being exactly that, is amazing. A major gripe is fear of losing identity, a persecution complex. This, in people belonging to the majority community forming more than 80% of the population should otherwise be surprising. To a person belonging to a minority community, this kind of a fear complex amongst the majority community should be very very nerve-wracking. This is an obvious factor that has betrayed itself in several parts of the world causing a lot of destruction. Another remarkable thing I've absorbed is the glaring ignorance of things about Muslim community amongst many of Urban Hindus- I heard a senior citizen today referring to Muslims as butchers, I gently poked him asking - surely he didn't believe all 180 million Indian Muslims were butchers, he was serious & meant it ! That there is equally glaring or even higher ignorance of most things about Hinduism/ Dharma amongst Muslims is possibly very true, I don't know enough to comment and this post is not about that.

I have three reasons that made me deliberate on & post it here- this friend of mine was so upset with my response to a post on his FaceBook page that he cut out my initial comment and responses to his questions from the Post altogether ! Worse, he called me names on his post and cut out my responses to them !
Second,  a comment form me that wasn't palatable to him made him lose all sense of decency  and reasonableness. The last is more selfish, I have a duty to let people know of my response when I'm called. names.
At a time when I hear of the new silent reformation underway among the educated Muslim youth, (  kafila.org/.../fundamentalism-liberalism-and-muslims-review-of-hasan-su... ) the incidence and rapid growth of such inferiority complex among the urban adherents of SanAtana Dharma is, a little unnerving not to mention the disappointment.

The whole post with comments is attached here. The parts colored are from me that My Friend (MF) removed from the post, funnily, while retaining the posers and comments on me/ my comments ! For obvious reasons,  I am 'Me' or 'NP', my friend if MF, other friends who commented are F1, F2, so on.


Unscrupulous godmen 'rescuing the hetahens' adopting Safrron Clothes
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Saffron Christian Missionaries 'deceive' naive Hindus by adopting and/or appropriating many Hindu appearances, symbols and Ideas
Saffron Christian Missionaries 'deceive' naive Hindus by adopting and/or appropriating many Hindu appearances, symbols and Ideas.

This is just one of the many example.
Saffron Christian Missionaries 'deceive' naive Hindus by adopting and/or appropriating many Hindu appearances, symbols and Ideas.

This is just one of the many example.

Saffron Christian Missionaries 'deceive' naive Hindus by adopting and/or appropriating many Hindu appearances, symbols and Ideas.
This is just one of the many example.
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F1 Recently when I visited a catholic church in Kerala, they had the system of removing footwear just like in Hindu temples. I told the priest there, that I also have been to St. Peters Church in Vatican City in Italy and the Pope heads that church and they don't ask anyone to remove their shoes to enter the church. 
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F1 In Bangalore on top of a church at Briand Square near Mysore Road and City Market recently I saw a Neon sign that is saying in Kannada "Om Shree Yesu Christaya Namaha" 
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F2 You could also say that, they are adopting to the native culture. They hold the 'Jesus pallakki' procession in the city streets, they even do the Magalarthi like in the Temples.
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MF Once 100% of the population has been converted they go drop all the forms and go right back to the Jerusalem code
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F2 100% ? Muslims may resist though.
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F3 Where is the so called "budhdhi jeevigalu" and why don't they see the deception here. They under the cover of secularism or freedom of expression are creating these fissures. To counter the this my friend after seeing this picture suggested that group of people dressed in the christian cloths should be shown performing yagna, pooja and aaradhane.

Me: MF, interesting that I’m reading ‘Among the Believers’ of V.S. Naipaul just as I see your post. This kind of thing happens all across Asia – semitic religions getting adapted in ancient Asian civilizations through appropriation of existing symbols & what was considered pagan practices.  If it were not for the centuries of exclusivity that Brahmans practiced in India through a rigid caste system, Hinduism would probably have been much more stronger & confident than it is today.
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MF Mr NP, Please respond to the post and not some irrelevant stuff.
The main point here is : Your friends are wearing Saffron dress to woo heathens. It is not that non-Brahmanas are running to a Chruch for identity.
That is not what the post is about.

Me Thanks MF for the advice, I note to avoid any comments on your posts, I can understand if you'd like to unfriend me, no offence will be taken.
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F1:  F2, They are not adopting to native culture, if that were to be true, then it would be welcome. What they are doing is engaging in deception knowing that Hindus inherently respect Saffron clothed men as Swamis. These are fake Swamis who have no clue as to the symbolism or sanctity of the significance of the Saffron robe. It actually denotes Viragya. These are Viagra Swamis 

MF: NP, you are an emotional roller-coaster!!! One extreme to another. You come and offend me but I point it out and u act like a victim!

Please answer my question: Can your friends namely Evangelists "fool" people to convert them? Yes/No.
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MF I will tolerate reasonable dissent on my timeline. Certified communists with selective hatred of Hinduism will also be tolerated to some extent. At some point I will send you back to Vatican.
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F4 The problem here is the ego combined with directionless emotion. Those who exhibit such emotions are always hurt within. MS I agree that even tolerance should be definite Integral....

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MF BTW, for those who don't know NP and myself are very friends from High School!! We started debating against each other from 1977 itself!
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MF Narasimha Prasad, I am waiting for a short answer to my questions


Please answer my question: Can your friends namely Evangelists "fool" people to convert them? Yes/No.
·         Me (April 22, 2014): Kept quiet given your responses Mahabala, let me close off with 2 things - I can't recall any evangelists for friends, so can't respond, hypothetically, there'll always be some exploiting people's vulnerability to meet their ends so long as there are people gullible to be exploited.
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·         Hey, You did not answer my question ------------------------------ The comment:
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·         Me: 2nd - If you plan to buy me a trip to Vatican, you are welcome but you'll have to count in the wife, son & daughter too as I cannot travel without them and thanks for the offer, its been 22 years since I last saw the Sistine Chapel. I'm not even an armchair commie & I expect Commies would hate to have me called one, given my views of them. I don't see any reason to display my sense of loyalty or pride in being a Hindu/ Sanatana Dharmi, I'm satisfied with my practice & little learning and am hungry for learning more on my Dharma, now I know your tolerance limit, which is to me, nil. Neverthless, I'll keep following your posts as I respect your honesty though despair at your intemperance. Last, there are no emotions here, only rational opinions weighed in with
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MF OK you are out from my timeline for wasting time.
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F5: MF,  The more I read about such news the more I feel helpless. Some one had recently posted 'yesu sahasra nama' in sanskrit which is being chanted in many of churches in India. What is going on in India? Or should we feel happy that they ...See More
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F6:  MF !! cool down a bit 
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F7: MF - X-ians have done mangaLaarati, oodina kaDDi, abhishekha, vrata, naivEdya, teertha etc. for a long time. It is nothing new.

Me: considering my own conduct, background, beliefs & practise, its very painful to be called 'Hindu Hater' that too by a good friend. As agreed I haven't posted this, but having called me names, I believe you have the courage to share this with your friends with whom you've characterized me & called me names. Take care.
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